How does one succeed in life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How do people who are deaf learn sign language? Is it typically taught by parents at a young age or are there programs available for learning it later in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why is social media so anti-fee speech, and have they become total BS?

Does not procrastinate.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

That's it for today.

Why cant I sleep even tho I am sleepy? I am not anxious or worried but my body just doesn't want to. I've been awake for almost 2 days and feel sleepy but I cant sleep. My doctor said its anxiety related but its not. Is this normal?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What are the pros and cons of arranged marriages?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why are people of mixed race seen as more attractive than non-mixed-race people?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What kind of person does a narcissist hate?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What do you like the most about black people?

Ask yourself:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What steps can be taken to track down a scammer and determine their location?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What I need from you?

Is it true that LGB should drop T?

Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Could the guys here tell me how their first experience with a trans woman was? Who was the lady to you? ( I mean girlfriend, one night stand, etc.) I just had my first experience recently and I would like to know about others?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What is one fantasy you have never told anyone about but really want to do?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What is your most erotic sex story?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Do not set goals—set systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.